What is the "Should" Monster? It's the voice inside telling us how we should or should not be living our lives. "I should go for that promotion." "I should not leave the stability of this job." "I really should work out more and should not eat that second piece of cake." I don't know about you, but that last one is always tricky for me...

Have you ever taken the time to think about your “why”? Your Why is what connects you to a higher level of meaning in your life. It helps you find a connection to your work or career after a particularly crappy day. It drives you forward to that goal you really want, even after 2, 3, or 4 setbacks. It’s what lets you know that, in the end, it is all worth it.